Can you share a lesson that you learned later in life and how it has impacted your current lifestyle, mentality, or attitude?
Last Updated: 30.06.2025 01:12

This is how I paid for not being able to say NO.
I would spend hours, sometimes days, replaying the decision in my head, regretting my response, wishing I had been honest.
No meant she is being rebellious.
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But hereās the hard truth I learned much later in life.
But my mind wouldnāt let go of it.
Itās very freeing.
I am thankful to my profession & how I started from scratch that I was able to become so blunt & straight forward.
I couldnāt say No to strangers talking & invading my personal life. It made me uncomfortable but somehow I entertained forcibly. This made me realize that I was an easy target for them. They thought of me as an easy prey. This always ended up hurting me because I knew there should be a boundary set , yet I couldnāt set it as I was just a naive small town girl
Everytime I said yes when I wanted to say no, I paid the price.
I lost a lot of money trying to fit in. I donāt like expensive English meals at fancy restaurants. But my friends did. I couldnāt say No thinking I would be judged. But I love āDesi foodā. I didnāt enjoy the food, & I ended up paying huge split bills so many times
I used to be the kind of person who found it incredibly hard to say no. I would keep peopleās feelings above mine.
I was always that one eager person to help someone in need without realising the consequences it might have. I have helped people from Quora & other places during the time when I had nothing on me. I couldnāt say No when a man manipulated me into giving him a huge amount for his daughters education during Covid. I later got fed up asking him to return. He returned after two years. His wife was a working lady at a good corporate place. He lied to me as he wanted money for his alcohol addiction
It drained me, messed with my peace, and cluttered my mind with unnecessary stress.
It has been an easy life.
No is a complete sentence & it should not be just used for CONSENT for sex.
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Itās very freeing.
Itās very refreshing.
I have ruined my sleep & rest hours with nonsense calls from nonsense people. No matter what the time, I have picked up their calls & listened to their rant for hours. I could not be blunt saying, āno am not interested in talkingā
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Itās very settling.
I always felt obligated to be polite, to be accommodating, to be the āniceā person because the dictionary of āgood girlā means they should be accommodating according to the society.
Whether it was a friend asking for a favor, an invitation I didnāt feel like accepting, or even a stranger requesting my time, I hesitated to say no
Many people especially girls will be able to connect with this answer.
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I lost a lot of my time to help, keeping my needs aside & the favour was never returned because most people took my time for granted & I also hesitated to ask for help
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